Remember those Choose Your Own Adventure books when we were kids? You would get to a crucial point in the story and you would be left with a decision to make because you couldn’t continue until you picked one of the two options presented (technically option three was you could stop reading). The options would be something like, “to open the door turn to page 39” or “to run up the stairs turn to page 51.” What to do? What to do? You thought about it, made your decision, and flipped the pages to see what would happen next.
Recently, I’ve been thinking about those books and saying to myself, “isn’t life just a constant choose your own adventure story?” Only now our decisions have more consequences than just reading a different part of a story. Yet, with these seemingly important decisions, we routinely do the same thing over and over without really thinking about it. Then when things don’t turn out how we want them to, we’re surprised. We end up in jobs and relationships that don’t satisfy us when we don’t think enough about what we want.
There have been plenty of times I’ve said to myself, “I should have known better.” If I had taken some time to think about what I was doing I might have chosen a better option. I’m not talking about “do you want soup or salad?” I’m talking about big life decisions. I think I’m going to try something new and have a monthly assessment of where I’m at with my life and where I want to go and see what decisions I need to make in order to get there. (Maybe I’ll discover it needs to be weekly, that’s part of the fun of trying this, who knows where this will take me).
What page do you want to turn to in your life story? What will you do to assess the decisions you need to make in order to get there?
Here’s to happy and fulfilling adventures!
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