Paul Simon, Asking for Help, Being an Insider and Showing Your Process

Paul Simon, Asking for Help, Being an Insider and Showing Your Process

Paul Simon on the “Dick Cavett Show”

I recently saw this video of Paul Simon on the “Dick Cavett Show” performing a partially finished “Still Crazy After All These Years.” You can listen to the completed version here.  There’s three lessons in this video – it’s okay to ask for help, give your audience a chance to be an insider and show your process.

It’s okay to ask for help 
The first lesson is there’s power in showing off the start of your project and saying, “Here’s what I have. What are your ideas for this?” If Simon had been sitting with another musician they may have been able to finish the song together. It may have ended up being different than what Simon ended up with. It’s most likely that would have happened.
The nice thing about asking for help is that it’s a chance for other ideas, other thoughts, to enhance your project to make it grow and take it in different directions. It gives you, and your project, a different perspective. Someone’s idea can trigger another idea. Ideas feed off of other ideas. Suddenly, it’s a completely different form. Don’t miss out on showing your works in progress, ask for help and see where others can take it. Whenever I share something with others it always ends up better.
A chance to be insider
Second, what Simon does by unveiling the half-finished song is it offers the audience a glimpse into his world. It makes us feel like he’s letting us in to a secret place that isn’t reserved for just anyone. With social media it’s easier to do this today. You can offer anyone a glimpse into your world. Take them into areas that are normally off limits. It’s a great way to build a strong connection with someone. You feel closer to them, like you’re part of an exclusive club. Austin Kleon is really good at this.
An example of this is when I saw the Bangles in concert. They played two new songs during the show that hadn’t been released yet. You better believe I remembered those songs when they released their next album. I felt privileged that they played those songs for me (along with the rest of the audience) that night.
Showing the process 
The third lesson is at times the most mysterious. I’m interested in creative people’s processes. After taking in someone’s work I’ll ask myself, “How’d they do that?” After Simon stops playing he offers some choices of where he could go with the song. He shows you how he thinks, what his thought process is.
Since it’s rare to see the creative process it’s especially helpful to take a look when we can. Usually we get to see the finished piece of work, but not how it evolved into its final form. I love The Beatles Recording Sessions by Mark Lewisohn and also The Making of Pump by Aerosmith. It’s a look into the process of two of music’s most successful bands. I love learning about how the tracks were made, how they did it, and with the Aerosmith video where they took a phrase or riff.
It’s noteworthy, that almost all DVDs have these types of insights. I encourage you to take advantage of them. Watch the movie with the director’s commentary. Watch the film with the script on half of the screen. It’s a great way to see what’s written versus what was captured on film. And if there is a difference you can see, why does it vary from the script? Should the deleted scenes have been kept? Why do you think they were edited out? We can learn from other people’s processes. Dive in.
How do you ask for help to make your work better? Do you let your audience in on your work? What are your processes?

My Favorite Books of 2015

My Favorite Books of 2015

Another year has come and gone, but not before I read my way through some inspiring and thought-proving books. Did these books top 2014’s list? I don’t know, but they’re just as awesome. I delved into creativity, a biography, leadership, and marketing. I took away a lot reading these, and I’m positive you will too. Without further ado, here are my favorite books of 2015.

1) Powers of Two (Finding the Essence of Innovation in Creative Pairs) by Joshua Wolf Shenk. The most fascinating book I’ve read on creativity. I, like most people, tend to think of creativity as something that a person does in solitude with their own special gifts. This book dispels that myth.
It looks deep into what makes someone truly creative, and how someone’s best work is always done as part of a team. Many famous pairs are analyzed in this book. As a Beatles fan, I found the look into John Lennon and Paul McCartney’s partnership eye-opening; and I’ve read a ton about them. Dozens of famous creative pairs are dissected; Steve Jobs and Steve Wozniak, Trey Parker and Matt Stone, Vincent and Theo Van Gogh, are just a few.
This book made me evaluate how my best work came to be. I realize my best work happened because there was a strong partnership involved, even when the act of creating something might have been done singularly, the partner was in the back of my mind, motivating me, inspiring me to do my best work. It gave me a fresh perspective on the influence of my partners and my influence on them.
If you read only one book from this list, this is my choice. Powers of Two (Finding the Essence of Innovation in Creative Pairs) is an amazing work.
2) Big Magic (Creative Living Beyond Fear) by Elizabeth Gilbert. Gilbert beautifully discusses what creativity and artistry are about, which is letting go of fear and getting over your ego and allowing what’s inside you to come out. She stresses the need to do the work. Inspiration doesn’t come like a flash of lightening, it comes to those who show up to work, every day. Therefore, creativity is a result of the habit of doing the work that needs to be done.
Gilbert also talks about letting curiosity take you where it wants to go. If you are curious about a topic, follow that curiosity. You never know where it will take you and what might come out of it. Also, the Muse has a way of helping you create things if you realize that it’s not you that’s the creator.
This book came at just the right time for me. It made me see myself as the artist I am. In recent years I seemed to have lost that notion of myself. This book got my creative juices percolating again. I’m seeing, hearing, and thinking creatively. Highly recommended.
3) Rising Strong by Brené Brown. I was inspired by her previous book, Daring Greatly, and eagerly awaited the arrival of this one in 2015. It does not disappoint. It’s kind of the next step, if you will, to Daring Greatly. If you are brave and vulnerable you’re going to get knocked down, without question. Rising Strong helps you to bounce back when that happens.
The first step is to know that you’re having a breakdown, let down, or what ever you want to call it. Then you need to figure out why you’re feeling and reacting the the way you are. Once that happens you can work through it, feel your emotions, and learn to be comfortable with discomfort. It’s not easy work, but this book equips you with the necessary tools to be able to rise strong. You may want to start with Daring Greatly if you haven’t read it, although it’s not necessary to enjoy this book.
4) Heaven and Hell (My Life in The Eagles 1974 – 2001) by Don Felder with Wendy Holden. Having enjoyed the work of The Eagles I was very interested to read this account of life in one of music’s biggest bands. What was most inspiring were the stories of Felder’s youth, and his life before he joined The Eagles. He grew up in Gainsville, Florida and came from very humble beginnings. He literally grew up in a shack his father built. Life was tough and the relationship with his father was strained, especially after he took to music.
What is interesting is how rich his musical experience was in Gainsville. He played with and became friends with Stephen Stills, the Allman Brothers, and Bernie Leadon. Leadon convinced him to move to LA and got him his gig with The Eagles, He even taught Tom Petty guitar. Like many rock and rollers there are the stories of the glamorous and not so glamorous gigs and the struggle get to the next level and make ends meet. That is until he joined The Eagles.
Once in The Eagles his life turned upside down. They became one of the biggest bands of all-time and they were constantly touring or recording to cash in on their success. What was surprising is how dysfunctional the band was even before he joined. There is a shocking amount of tension, fighting and drug use throughout and as Don Henley and Glenn Frey began to believe that they were The Eagles, things became even more strained. Things took a turned ugly when they started asking for a larger cut of the money and Felder questioned it. The ultimate betrayal was Felder’s being kicked out of The Eagles.
It’s sad to read this tale being such a fan of The Eagles’ music and I’m glad I can listen to the music with pleasure. What I most took away from the book were the lessons about Felder’s early years and how devoted he was to his craft. When you’re good doors open up to you and when you wish for fame and fortune it’s not all it’s cracked up to be.
5) Joyworks by Michael Cudahy. I was first introudced to this book a few years ago through Michael Cudahy’s Ten Golden Rules on How to Run an Organization, which comes from this book. This book is as relevant today as when it was first published in 2002. It provides an inside look at the founding of Marquette Electronics and its rise as a multi-million dollar business.
Cudahy writes with great humor and I found it hard to put down. It doesn’t leave out the trials and mistakes along the way either. There are plenty of costly errors, but Cudahy looks at the lessons learned from each. He believed in treating his employees like family, and he took care of them like that. Just some examples he mentions include building a child care facility at their office, frequent employee celebrations and talent shows, generous rewards and pay, and treating employees fairly. He even eliminated time clocks at the company because he trusted the employees and reasoned that they would work harder and with more pride knowing they were trusted (he was right). The company cafeteria also offered another perk – beer and wine.
He writes sadly of how after he sold the company to GE, the company culture of Marquette Electronics was destroyed and many of the employees left shortly after the take over. I got a sense that this eats at him still. Overall, this is a fascinating look at how you can run a company by treating employees and customers decently and still make a profit. This is a must read for anyone in business and marketing.
6) Leaders Eat Last (Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don’t) by Simon Sinek. This book runs a similar path to Michael Cudahy’s book, with with many more examples. Simon makes the case for real leadership and how there are essentially no great leaders today. He discusses military leadership and leadership in companies that do things differently than most.
Sinek shows how when the economy changed employees became expendable, shifting what it meant to work for a company like our fathers and grandfathers knew. Companies not longer take care of their employees. Though it’s not the world we live in today, it is possible, as Sinek shows, to operate quite successfully by returning to old time values. Again, he draws on military references in showing how we can incorporate leadership principals into our own workplaces to make them places where employees feel safe and where we can work together trusting that our boss has our back, as we have his.
I love everything Simon Sinek stands for. This book is brilliant. A must read.
7) It’s Your Ship (Management Techniques from the Best Damn Ship in the Navy) by Captain D. Michael Abrashoff. I originally heard Captain Abrashoff on Wisconsin Public Radio a couple of yeas ago and was impressed enough to buy a copy of his book. It took me a while to get to it, but it was worth the wait. It contains a treasure trove of ideas on how to win the hearts and minds of those you lead.
Abrashoff provides real-life examples of leadership, demonstrated by his run as commander of the USS Benfold. He took over a ship with low morale and a low re-enlistment rate. During his tenure the ship became the highest ranked in the Navy’s fleet; morale and re-enlistments soared.
What struck me is how he didn’t try to radically change things, even though there was so much that needed changing. He worked within the bureaucracy and red tape to make incremental changes. Even the commander of a Navy ship has to know when to push the boundaries and when to conform. It’s a good lesson in picking the right battles.
Captain Abrashoff didn’t shake things up to make a ruckus, but enjoyed small wins, over and over, to where he built up credibility so he had leverage to push the envelope at times. One key aspect of his leadership, is giving the men and women on the ship control to make their own decisions. He told the crew, “It’s your ship.” The crew, with the control to make their own decisions, proved him right by doing the right thing. And if mistakes were made, it was a learning opportunity. Ideal reading for anyone in a leadership role.
8) Everybody Writes by Ann Handley. Something that is so easy to read shouldn’t be this helpful, should it? But, that’s exactly what this book is. Ann Handley gives practical writing advice in 74 easily digestible chapters. I found something useful in nearly every chapter. This isn’t a boring book about grammar rules. Sure, there’s some grammar discussed, but this book is about content, and we all know the importance of content in today’s world. So, not matter what type of content your’re writing whether its blog posts, annual reports, web copy, eBooks, or some other marketing copy, there’s something for you here; even if you think you’re a pretty good writer.
It was immediately noticeable that, even before I finished this book, my writing was stronger, more concise, and my word choices were smarter. My writing was impacted by reading this book and I will read this annually. If you want to take your writing up a notch, go out and buy this Everybody Writes.
9) Brandscaping by Andrew Davis. I resisted reading this book because of the awful title. It sounds like there’s hot wax and painful hair removal involved, but I heard so many great things about it, and about Andrew Davis, that I gave in and bought it. I’m glad I did because this book is brilliant.
This isn’t your typical marketing book. Davis really does break new ground with Brandscaping, and that’s saying a lot. He believes it’s vitally important for brands to ask “what if” questions. These “what if” questions make you think about marketing and branding completely differently. It could open up a world of possibilities previously off limits. It’s not enough to think about “what if” questions, but to be brave enough to implement them.
This book is a guide on how to innovate and find partners where you may not have realized they existed. It’s packed with examples on companies that have successfully brandscaped, proving that it works, not just in theory, but in the real world. If you’re a marketer this is a must read.
Did you read any of these? What were your favorite books of 2015? What are you looking forward to reading in 2016?

Thank you, David Letterman!

Thank You David Letterman

I’ve been a fan of David Letterman ever since I watched his morning show. Yes, you read that right – his morning show. It was 1980 and I was on summer vacation and about to enter the sixth grade. Geez, that was a long time ago! I somehow stumbled across it one morning. It must have been raining or something. Thank God for that!

Once I saw his show, I immediately fell in love. His sense of humor, quick wit, and sharp mind struck a chord with me. He reminded me of my dad. It must be a Midwestern thing. I think there really is a sense of humor that we have here that’s a little different than anywhere else. It’s a little self deprecating, a bit zany, but it’s dry. David exuded all of that 100%.

It was fun watching him that summer and I was bummed when school started. I’d watch anytime I had a day off. I remember catching the final episode with the theme song “I Love New York” playing as he went off the air. I wondered what idiot would cancel his show? Couldn’t they see this guy was a genius?
It was canceled because it wasn’t the right audience. Luckily, Dave found his audience on late night television and he’s been entertaining us for the past 33 years there.
He was an influence and I always wanted to be on his show. I even wrote a Top Ten list – Top Ten reasons why you should listen to Volume One (my band back in college). Whenever I completed a project like recording music or writing I would imagine being discovered by one of Dave’s producers who would ask me to be on the show because Dave liked my stuff. Of course, I never did get on his show, but the dream was always there.
At one point I was going to start a campaign for David Letterman for President. There isn’t anyone on the planet more honest than a comedian, and Dave is a great example of that. It was perfect, other than the fact that it was dumb. Dave served us much better on his show.
There also isn’t anyone with a bigger heart than Dave. Whenever someone who influenced him passed away he always dedicated time on the show to honor them. When he was touched, so was I.
Dave was also a huge supporter of our men and women in the military. In 2014, Medal of Honor recipient Ryan Pitts was given a brief mention on the ABC Nightly News. Pitts wasn’t interviewed or even given a sound bite. After the clip of Pitts, ABC showed an interview with “Weird Al” Yankovic. I was embarrassed. I knew Dave would come through and a few days later he did when Ryan Pitts was a guest on Dave’s show. Dave gave Pitts the respect and platform he deserved. I knew I could count on Dave to make things right.
Dave showed that even with all the craziness in this world that things were okay and there was always a reason to laugh. No one will come close to Dave – ever. I’m grateful that I’ve been able to enjoy him for all these years. He’s made me laugh and made me think. And I’ll miss him immensely.
Thank you, David Letterman!

The 5 Most Underrated Songs by the Beatles

The 5 Most Underrated Songs by the Beatles

The amount of songs written and recorded by the Beatles is staggering. With a recording career that spanned just over 7 years they released 13 albums and 22 singles (enough to fill 2 more albums known as Past Masters Vol. 1 & 2).

We know the melodies to most of their songs as if they are a part of our DNA. But, even with such a vast catalog there are some hidden gems – songs that don’t get the attention they deserve.

I’d like to call attention to the 5 most underrated songs by the Beatles.

1) I Don’t Want to Spoil the Party – This gem is from the album Beatles for Sale. All the elements of a great Beatles song are here. Starting with the opening guitar lick, it dives right into a strong melody with tight harmonies that border on the sublime. Listening to Paul harmonize with John is a true joy. I don’t know if there’s anything better than listening to John and Paul sing together and you’d be hard pressed to find singers more attuned to each other. Only the the Everly Brothers and the Bee Gees are their equals.
A very thoughtful and crisp guitar solo from George pours out of his Gretsch that shines with the spirit of Chet Atkins and Carl Perkins, yet it is pure George. This is one of those songs you can listen to 10 times in a row and it’s a pleasure each time.
2) If I Needed Someone – For my money, this is one of the best songs George Harrison ever wrote. George shows off his Rickenbacker 12-string to great delight on this track from Rubber Soul. It stars just as much as George’s vocal. Paul and John provide harmonies to lift the song to another level.
This songs has the distinction of being the only song composed by George that was played live by the Beatles; having performed it on their 1966 tour. George also pulled it out for his 1991 tour of Japan.
3) Hey Bulldog – This lively track was recorded in February 1968 right before the Beatles left for India to learn Transcendental Meditation with the Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, though the song wouldn’t be released until January 1969 when the Yellow Submarine soundtrack was issued.
The song starts with a moving and catchy opening riff on piano, played by John, then builds as George and Ringo join in, followed by Paul. It features one of Paul’s bass masterpieces as well as a blistering guitar solo by George.
It’s impossible to not get drawn in by the energy this song gives off. And hearing John and Paul interact with each other on the fade out just makes you smile, which is exactly what the Fab Four do – make you smile.
4) Octopus’s Garden – This song by Ringo Starr gets lost in the Beatles canon and that’s a shame. It’s a playful track and you can feel the love the group had for Ringo as they do their best to let him shine on Abbey Road. And shine he does as he provides one of his most solid vocal efforts.
The song bounces along and you can’t help but tap along and move your head from side to side as it plays. Paul lays down a steady bassline and augments the song with some honky-tonk piano in the pre-chours and chorus. The highlight to me, is listening to Paul and George harmonize together. It is truly blissful.
George’s guitar solo is perfect cherry on top of this slice of Beatles wonderfulness. The track is fun to listen to, what else can you say.
5) You Know My Name (Look Up the Number) – The Beatles’ sense of humor shines through in this interesting piece. The comedy is woven into a nice little jazzy number. The Beatles were a tight band, no matter what style of music they attempted.
The interplay between John and Paul is delightful and listening to John at the end of the song sounds a bit like Monty Python. If you don’t get a laugh out of this there’s something seriously wrong with you. It also features a sax solo by Brian Jones of the Rolling Stones.
There you have it; the 5 most underrated songs by the Beatles. Like their more popular songs, each one offers a different bit of creativity. They may not stand out to the masses, but these five songs truly represent who the Beatles are. For the Beatles, and for all artists, there is no such thing as lesser works.
Anything you think should have been on the list? What would you have left off?

“Stop Talking. I’m Painting.” A Lesson in Focus and Eliminating Distractions.

Stop talking. I'm painting.Recently my sister decided to give my 3 1/2 year old niece some paints, brushes, and paper; figuring that she’s old enough to be able to have fun without making too much of a mess. My niece enjoys coloring books and drawing, so it seemed like a logical progression.

Turns out my niece loves painting. She literally lost herself in it. At one point my sister asked if she wanted a sandwich for lunch. My niece responded, “I’m painting.” My sister asks again, “What do you want for lunch?” Without even lifting her head my niece responded, “Stop talking. I’m painting.” There’s a great lesson here from my 3 1/2 year old niece about focus and eliminating distractions.
How often do we let distractions dictate what we do? Even though her mom was asking her what she wanted to eat, my niece wasn’t having any of it. She was going to keep painting until she was done. It didn’t matter that her mom was talking to her. No one was going to break her concentration.
We often let life distract us. We could be in the middle of something; lost in what we’re doing. Instead of staying in the flow, we get distracted because there’s a meeting scheduled, or the phone rings, or we get an email and we can’t beat the urge to check it. We let those things interrupt us.
Why do we do that? Maybe we think it’s selfish. Maybe we don’t want to be rude. If we ignore the distractions, what we’re saying is “hold on, I’ve got more important things happening right now.” Instead of looking at it as selfish, look at it as self-power. It’s empowering to proclaim, “this is what I’m doing, and I can’t be bothered.”
It’s like those lights that go on when broadcasters are “on the air.” No one would dare interrupt them at that moment. What you’re doing is just as important as anyone else. Take the time to finish your work. You’re “on the air” and your work is valuable.
There is nothing more important than what you’re doing at this very moment. If you give yourself completely to the moment you can get lost in it like my niece. There have been times when I’ve been so focused on something that I’ve lost all sense of time. I did’t feel hunger. I did’t get tired.
It’s an amazing feeling to be so into what you’re doing that nothing else matters. The next time you start something give your undivided attention to it. Sign out of email, and Facebook, turn off your cell phone, eliminate anything that could be a possible distraction. See if you can get lost in it. If you get lost in it often enough, who knows, maybe you’ve just found your calling.
I’m thankful for this important lesson. What do you think? Will this work for you? How do you eliminate distractions from your life so you can focus on the moment in front of you?

Robin Williams and The Artist’s Soul

Robin Williams and the Artist's SoulThe death of Robin Williams has deeply saddened me. I feel sorry for his family, and for those of us affected by his work. But, I mostly feel sorry for him. Artists like Robin Williams give, and give, and give, and yet he didn’t feel like he got enough back out of life to live. 

We take for granted that artists are there to inspire us, make us laugh, make us cry, help us fall in love, and get over falling out of love. They give up more than we know. The artist’s soul is fed by giving, by creating, by going where most of us fear going. They are open and honest and feel and experience life to the extremes. We love where they take us.
Artists are in a spotlight that few of us will be under. Sure, artists get fortune and fame, but as we’ve seen over and over again; that is not what life is about. That does not provide true happiness and fulfillment.

I remember when I read about the suicide of Del Shannon back in 1990. That hit me hard, though at the time I wasn’t familiar with his body of work except for “Runaway.” I thought it was tragic that someone who had given of himself so freely couldn’t find satisfaction or happiness.
I have felt the same way with other artists that have ended their lives, but Williams’ death hurts much more because of the amount of joy he brought to me. Reading the countless tributes, I know he affected others just as much. There’s a sense of guilt with that as well. He gave so much, but I couldn’t do anything for him, like I could do anything for him since I didn’t know him personally. It’s funny how we just take, and think our interaction is complete with the purchase of a ticket or CD.
What I can do is admire and respect artists who give everything to entertain us. When someone exhibits behavior we question, we have no idea what that person is dealing with, we can appreciate their life without judgment. I can love those around me and encourage them through this journey called life.
I feel like Robin Williams was a comet that could only shine for so long before burning out. He gave what he could, and it was time to move on. He will truly be missed and I hope he has found what he was looking for.